Funeral Information

Funeral ceremonies have always helped us say goodbye, honor a life, and begin healing. No matter what kind of service you choose, certain elements can bring comfort, connection, and a sense of meaning. When these pieces come together, they create a tribute that truly reflects the person you love.



The Role of Music

Music has a unique way of helping us feel, remember, and process moments that words sometimes cannot touch. During a funeral, music can bring forward emotions, offer comfort, and create space to reflect.

Choosing music for the service:

• Select songs that were special to your loved one or meaningful to your family.
• Most funeral homes, churches, and gathering spaces can play audio from CDs or digital devices.
• If you prefer live music, your funeral director or clergy can help arrange musicians or vocalists.

Readings & Reflections

Readings help us accept the reality of loss and gently guide us toward healing.

You may choose:

• Traditional readings from religious or spiritual texts
• Poems, letters, or meaningful passages that reflect your loved one’s values or personality
• Words that bring comfort, hope, or even gentle humor when appropriate

These moments offer a way to honor the life lived and acknowledge the emotions that come with saying goodbye.

The Meaning of Symbols

When words feel limited, symbolic gestures can express love and support in powerful ways. Families often include:

• Flowers: A symbol of love, beauty, and support
• Food: A gesture of care and nourishment from friends
• Candles: A reminder of the human spirit and the light a loved one leaves behind
• The Body: Whether in an open or closed casket, simply being present offers a focal point for grief and acknowledgment

These symbols provide comfort and invite moments of reflection.

Sharing Memories

Memories are one of the most lasting and meaningful gifts we carry forward. Not everyone is comfortable speaking publicly, so there are many other ways to share special moments:

• Memory Basket: Guests can write down stories to be placed in a basket and read later or displayed.
• Memory DVD or Video Tribute: Photos and music combined into a video keepsake. Many funeral homes offer this service or can guide you in creating one.
• Memory Letters: Personal letters to the loved one, which can be placed in the casket or kept by the family.
• Memory Tables or Boards: Displays of photos, hobbies, treasured items, or meaningful objects that reflect a life well lived.
• Recording the Service: Some families find comfort in having the service videotaped or recorded, allowing them to revisit it when they are ready or share it with those unable to attend.